Raymond J. Milot's Intentional Destruction of Evidence
Once upon a time, Raymond J. Milot lived at 95 Indian Trail in the Candlewood Lake Club with his wife, Christine Jowdy and their three children. Instead of being loyal to his wife, Ray-Ray busied himself chasing broads like Kim Brown and Jane Walsh, a married woman with two kids.
One day his wife had enough of his restraining her and called the police. Milot was arrested. Angry with Christine for not tolerating abusive conduct and his philandering, narcissist Milot vowed revenge and began a campaign to deprive her of the love and affections of her children. Ever the coward, using his finely honed skills of manipulation, Milot coerced and manipulated his children, neighbors, therapists, lawyers and social workers to help him carryout his vendetta.
This post and others to come detail Ray Milot's conduct toward Christine Jowdy and me that have included his committing unlawful acts or lawful acts by unlawful means. Sadly Milot's children will forever be scarred by his behavior.
The following is a timeline of Ray Milot causing the destruction of evidence to attempt to conceal his conduct which, together with documents to be published in coming days, illustrates how he corrupted the morals of his children by teaching them to engage in such behavior.
Table I: Raymond J. Milot's Intentional Destruction of Evidence
| No. | Date | Description |
|---|---|---|
| 1. | 04/2018 | Milot threatened Christine Jowdy that he was "going to war" with her. |
| 2. | 09/06/2019 | A Jowdy-Milot Child informed Milot in a text message: "Ok I deleted all" then stated "And I'll delete all of these messages." |
| 3. | 10/19/2019 | Milot instructed one of his children "you should delete these texts." |
| 4. | 10/19/2019 | Milot instructed one of his children who was uploading a video recorded in Christine Jowdy's home, "[your Mom] isn't going to be happy [you] recorded her … [y]ou may want to delete your messages" to which the child replied "Ok." |
| 5. | 10/29/2019 | A Jowdy-Milot child asked its father "[w]hen will you be able to get full custody[?]" indicating the child was informed by Milot of his plan to continue litigating against his ex-wife. |
| 6. | 11/02/2019 | Milot instructed "[y]ou should not save texts to me sweets" to which the child replied "Ok … I'll just delet (sic) the whole conversation" to which Milot replied with a thumbs-up emoji. |
| 7. | 11/04/2019 | Jon Goodwin sends Milot a letter via FedEx informing him he intends to sue him. Milot rejects the FedEx letter whereupon Christine Jowdy sends it to him using the OurFamilyWizard email system which verified Milot's receipt for the document. In his letter, Goodwin demanded Milot not destroy evidence. |
| 8. | 11/08/2019 | Speaking to a friend, a Milot child informed them "[Milot] had to pause messages because my mom keeps taking my phone and looking through my messages to try and sue my dad." |
| 9. | 11/25/2019 | Milot asked one of his children "[did y]our mom explode?" then five seconds later instructed the child to "[d]elete that." |
| 10. | 11/25/2019 | Milot instructed one of his children "make sure you turn your phone off and hide it -- and delete this" to which the child replied "Ok." |
| 11. | 02/02/2020 | Milot, referring to texts messages with a Jowdy-Milot Child, instructed "best to clear this conversation." |
October 12, 2023 Deposition of Raymond J. Milot
When asked under oath whether he told "any of [his] children to delete text messages that [he] sent them," Milot responded "[t]hat I sent them? No."